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Next day we got up early and after getting everything ready we went to my in-laws where the first event was planned to be held. Its called Mehndi ceremony and today we have two trips, one to take the mehndi to bride side and later they will come to groom side. I and my wife reached my in-laws in afternoon and I told her to climb the stairs first and meet the people there. I was behind her, she met her mother first and after few seconds I appear in front of them. They were very happy and my father in-law came out from his room specially to greet me. He was saying repeatedly that I have made his day by coming on his only son's wedding. My mother in law was also very happy. But among all, my wife had different smile on her face. She was really happy and was feeling complete because of my presence. Also now all her sisters and herself will be attending the wedding with their husbands. Day passed just fine as nothing special to do; all my stuff was ready by my wife so I was not worried about any thing.

In the evening everybody got ready for the first trip to brides side. My in-laws arranged a car for us and we moved toward early as they have to wait for some guest and then will go in bus. In short, everybody reached there and everything went fine. Dances and all were good and the ceremony held in peace and with smiles on everybody's face. As we reached there early so we return back early as well. But then they delayed too much, mean the bride side guests. They reached on groom side much late.

Got late and then their ceremony and the function also delayed because all of the guests started to come on stage and gave blessings one by one. About 1 am they all left, I was there waiting for bar.b.q, but it was all hoax that its going to be bar.b.q. There was only stupid mujra dance of she males. Anyhow attended it for sometime then left but much late. It was about 2:30 am,when I called my wife to go with me back to home. She was not feeling good but we have to move because there was no place to sleep or to stay. So both of us left in that much late timings. But by Allah's help and protection we reached home safely. That night I drove the bike very fast and even I didn't have helmet with me. Eyes were filled with water because of cold night. But on reaching home I felt much relaxed and after changing I slept early. Next day was of Friday, so prayer and then getting ready for the big day. The ceremony of Barat, marriage agreement and all.

I started getting ready at home in the afternoon, but left for the venue in the evening as it was an evening event.I,my wife and my parents including brother got ready and reached on the location on time. Everything started smooth but only one stupid donkey put the bitterness in function. Anyhow not mentioning, but when I reached there, groom just returned from parlor and still was not wearing his clothes. I was in suit and same was few other boys too. I made him to get ready and some others too. Again my in-laws arranged a car for me which I drove myself to the venue of wedding ceremony. We moved almost along with other guests but CNG filling delayed us. Today we had planned to stay at my in-laws so that's why I was having separate car and my parents were easy to leave from the venue directly back to home. I was not having good mood because of stupidity of one jackass, so I didn't dance this time and the groom moved to stage after others finished the dance and all. I was just trying to stay happy as my wife was happy, so finished the ceremony and the dinner on the bride side we moved back early toward groom and my in-laws side. In the way we bought some flower bouquet and then reached the house of my in-laws. They reached right after us and the ceremony of entering the house started and everything goes fine. Then a little sitting together with new bride and a little chit chat. After that bride and groom went to their room and we changed and stayed in outer room for some fun at night to disturb the new couple. We did that, but no response from them. May be they were keeping their selves calm. But we enjoyed and ate pizza at night along with all other fellows.

Next day was of Walima, grand wedding dinner, as we were there on my in-laws side, we both, I and my wife went back to home to get dressed. In all these events my wife didn’t go parlor for any thing. She got ready at home and looks more beautiful than all others who went to parlor for cosmetics pasting in bulk. We reached back after getting ready on time and as my parents has to reach the venue directly so we stayed at my in-laws till the ceremony starts. Also helped the new couple for their photo shoot. Nice time spent until my wife’s elder sister came to tell us her opinion about the bride get up. Anyhow we didn’t bother her much and left for venue in the same car with driver who took us back to home and return. Some photo shoots on venue, dinner and then rush to another event of my father’s relative. So this is the story of my first few days and the main reason of my trip to Pakistan.

In my trip I attended 3 weddings, not all events but few and enjoyed. May Allah give good health to me and my wife. Ameen